End of Life Doula, Ceremony Dreamer, & Funeral Planner

End of Life Doula

Death Midwife, Death Doula

This sacred work goes by many names—end-of-life doula, death doula, death midwife—but at its heart, it’s about presence, compassion, and support during one of life’s most profound transitions.

As a death doula, I walk alongside individuals and their loved ones as they navigate the final chapter of life. Just as a birth doula supports the arrival of new life, I offer calm, comfort, and grounded guidance at life’s end.

My role is non-medical, deeply personal, and always tailored to the unique needs of those I serve. Whether it’s emotional support, spiritual reflection, practical planning, or simply sitting in silence—I do my best to show up with care and intention, honoring each journey as it unfolds.

Services

  • Companionship

    Gentle presence and emotional support for the dying and their families—whether in conversation, silence, or simply being there.

  • Life Review & Legacy

    Guided reflection to help tell your story, preserve your memories, and share what matters most—with letters, art, recordings, or legacy projects.

  • Ceremony Design

    Personalized rituals and ceremonies that reflect your values and beliefs—before, during, or after death.

  • Vigil Support

    Coordinating and holding space during the final hours—creating a peaceful, intentional atmosphere for transition.

  • Memorial Planning

    Collaborative planning for meaningful services that honor your life and legacy, whether traditional or unconventional.

  • The Unknown

    Collaboration is key and needs are not always clear, until they are! I’m happy to discuss wild ideas.

FAQs

What exactly does a death doula do?
A death doula provides emotional, spiritual, and practical support around the end of life. This can include legacy projects, vigil planning, sitting bedside, helping coordinate care, or simply offering a calming presence during a tender time.

When should someone reach out to a death doula?
Anytime. Some people connect months or years in advance; others during hospice or the final weeks. It’s never too early or too late to begin a supportive conversation.

Do you provide medical or legal advice?
No. While I work closely with families and care teams, I don’t replace medical professionals or legal advisors. I complement their care with heart-centered, holistic support.

Do you work with people of all beliefs and backgrounds?
Yes. I honor all spiritual paths (or none), cultural traditions, identities, and family structures. My role is to support your values and wishes.

Can you help plan a non-traditional funeral or ceremony?
Absolutely. I specialize in co-creating unique, personal rituals—from forest gatherings to living memorials to quiet family vigils. Whatever helps tell your story with love and truth.

How do your services work—are they hourly or by package?
I offer both hourly rates and sliding-scale packages based on your needs. Please reach out for a free consultation and we can explore what feels right for you.

About Me

I thrive on connection, blending the practical and magical. With a background in design, I bring a creative and empathetic approach to making experiences more intuitive, beautiful, and meaningful. I’ve organized radical gatherings, facilitated deep conversations, and supported people through major life transitions. I’m a lifelong student of the sacred, the cyclical, and the unseen.

Rooted deeply in Madison, Wisconsin, I draw inspiration from both the land and the community that surrounds me. I fill my soul dancing, singing with friends, and soaking up the magic of the natural world.

Training & Affiliations